Anonymous asked: i went out with this guy for about 6 months, we have known each other since primary school and i broke up with him because i just didnt have the time to have a relationship abd barely ever saw him. recently i have been thinking about him heaps and i miss him so much, what should i do? i dont whether i should tell him or not, we stilll talk a bit and he tells me his problems and shit but im scared that he will not feel the same way back...

Darling, if you still have feelings for him tell him.

This advice is for all scenarios: never regret something you did without thinking, regret what you didn’t do for thinking to much. In the end of the day, we only regret the chances we didn’t take.

Hope that everything works well with you and the guy you like :)

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Anonymous asked: pleasee help, what would you wear with a black skirt full circle skirt!!helppp

Maybe you could wear it with a white blouse and a belt? :) Or with a colored blouse to look more colorful and not so simple!

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Anonymous asked: I am in a relationship with the love of my life. Problem is that we both want to go to different colleges that are pretty far away from each other. How can I handle being away from him or even deal with us breaking up, because of the distance.

First of all, you have to be strong and face the fact that you’re going to be in different colleges and quite far from each other. Then, you should try to talk to him as much as you can every day and also try to see him as often as you can! 

It will work darling, don’t worry! :) Like I once said, “Distance is just a word”.

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Anonymous asked: hi, i have recently started a blog, and i absolutelu love the concept of a blog, i am all the way in south africa. On your blog I mainly see pictures and images, however on my blog i have written a few articles. NO one can comment on my blog, I dont know how to fix that, and I dont have as many readers as you. please help me.

Yes, on my blog I post mostly photos but you can post whatever you like! Followers are important but you must like your own blog above everything else. As long as you reblog whatever you want then you’ll be fine.

If by comment on your blog you mean ask then you should allow people to ask you questions on the settings page! Oh and followers come with time, don’t worry :)

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Anonymous asked: i fell in love with the boy. i met him 7 years ago at church. we went to the same junior high school and he was my classmate on 3rd grade of junior high school. then, he always treated me well like held my hands, made me laugh even though he already had girlfriend. and now we go to the different high school, but i can meet him at church. but i really miss him. i want to forget him but i cant. what should i do?:(

If you are really into him, then you could try and talk more with him when you meet him at church or maybe on facebook? Also, if he has a girlfriend maybe it’s time to try and forget about him and just move on. I am sure that there are plenty of guys that are worth a shot at your school. If he doesn’t have a girlfriend then talk to him and just see where that goes :) Good luck darling!

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saintwithlouboutins asked: I fell in love with guy who will never be able to love me back. I hate that feeling, but when I see him (I meet him twice a year or something, but it feels like real connection when I see him.) I don't know what should I do about it. I want to forget him but the other side I want to do something good with this relationships. I'm totally confused. I try to talk with him on facebook but it was not good at all. But...He feels so mine. Can you give some advice, please? Thank you.

Honey you should do whatever your heart wants but you have to keep in mind that sometimes we should think with our head before we listen to our heart. You could talk to him on facebook and maybe try to get his phone number. If he doesn’t show an interest in you then I am sure that there are plenty of guys who would love to be with you and that would make you happy. If he gives you his phone number then continue to talk to him and see where that takes you, if not then maybe it’s time to move on and that doesn’t mean that you have to completely forget about him.

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Anonymous asked: I am miserable at work and currently considering quitting. The catch is that I am 3 months pregnant and fear that this will affect any new job prospects. I know it is illegal for an employer to discriminate but, I think it's naive to think that they don't. Also, I am not sure that I want to work after the birth of my child for at least a year or so. Do I apply for jobs and keep the pregnancy to myself or should I be upfront about it? I am struggling with this.

If you are miserable at work then you should follow your heart and quit because you don’t like what you are doing anymore and it is difficult for you to be as productive as you would be if you did something that you like. As for the pregnancy, I am not really aware of how the condition at work when it comes to the matter really is so I can’t give an actual opinion. Maybe you could get informed of your rights and if the question pops at a job interview you have to be honest of course but make sure that you know your rights and that is basically all I can say regarding this topic. Good luck with everything :)

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Anonymous asked: I just saw the response to my question (abortion) and I totally understand your opinion. I seriously considered to let someone adopt my child but to be honest, I couldn't live with the feeling someone else has MY child.. Maybe it sounds mean to you and I know some women can't become pregnant. I only think at that time, I couldn't live with that feeling.. Yes, I got an abortion and sometimes I regret it but after all, I think I made the right choice. So I understand you, totally. Love♥

I understand your position honey and I wish you all the best. I am sure that someday when the time is right you’ll be an amazing mother and even though you still regret it sometimes I am certain that at that moment you felt like it was the best thing to do for yourself. Stay strong darling.

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Anonymous asked: HiHiHi well i'm going to tell you my story & i hope later you give me a advic:) Well my friends started going to the disco but.. i don't want to go there (yeah i'm strange) and since they started going there they change, now the are diferent, they think they are sososo cool & now when i meet with them, i feel like they only want to be my friends 'cause my money & not for who i am & before they were my confidents & now i can't tell they my secrets.. and now i feel i'm alone, & i cry everynight..

Aww honey don’t feel this way because of your friends. You should trust them and I’m sure this is just a phase because they have just started their nightlife and think they are “cool”. I think that can happen quite regularly because teenagers feel more independent when they start going out but they shouldn’t change their behavior towards their friends and I’m sure that some day you’ll find that discos, clubs and bars are awesome and you’ll have a lot of fun there :) Just be patient, try talking with them and explain what’s wrong. If they are really your friends I’m sure they’ll say sorry and if you still think that after a serious and mature talk you can’t be friends anymore than maybe it’s time for you to find new friends!

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Anonymous asked: I feel like I have to say this because I saw an anon said "don't get an abortion" to another anon. That made me really angry. I don't even know the original thing, but seriously, if you want to get an abortion, GET A FUCKING ABORTION. It's your choice. Do what you want and just don't care about what anyone else says.

I think that everyone is free to have their own opinions. We are free people and we are allowed to think how we want to. Regarding that situation, it is not a problem that can be solved that easily and I haven’t spoken with the girl anymore so I don’t know what she did or even if she did something. It is up to her to decide and I hope that she made the right choice.

This is for everyone who reads this. Feel free to share your opinions with me and I’ll post them in this blog even if you don’t need advice and just feel like sharing. However, remember that no judging is allowed because we have different opinions.

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