saintinlouboutins asked: I fell in love with guy who will never be able to love me back. I hate that feeling, but when I see him (I meet him twice a year or something, but it feels like real connection when I see him.) I don't know what should I do about it. I want to forget him but the other side I want to do something good with this relationships. I'm totally confused. I try to talk with him on facebook but it was not good at all. But...He feels so mine. Can you give some advice, please? Thank you.
Honey you should do whatever your heart wants but you have to keep in mind that sometimes we should think with our head before we listen to our heart. You could talk to him on facebook and maybe try to get his phone number. If he doesn’t show an interest in you then I am sure that there are plenty of guys who would love to be with you and that would make you happy. If he gives you his phone number then continue to talk to him and see where that takes you, if not then maybe it’s time to move on and that doesn’t mean that you have to completely forget about him.
click here to read only this questionAnonymous asked: I am miserable at work and currently considering quitting. The catch is that I am 3 months pregnant and fear that this will affect any new job prospects. I know it is illegal for an employer to discriminate but, I think it's naive to think that they don't. Also, I am not sure that I want to work after the birth of my child for at least a year or so. Do I apply for jobs and keep the pregnancy to myself or should I be upfront about it? I am struggling with this.
If you are miserable at work then you should follow your heart and quit because you don’t like what you are doing anymore and it is difficult for you to be as productive as you would be if you did something that you like. As for the pregnancy, I am not really aware of how the condition at work when it comes to the matter really is so I can’t give an actual opinion. Maybe you could get informed of your rights and if the question pops at a job interview you have to be honest of course but make sure that you know your rights and that is basically all I can say regarding this topic. Good luck with everything :)
click here to read only this questionAnonymous asked: I just saw the response to my question (abortion) and I totally understand your opinion. I seriously considered to let someone adopt my child but to be honest, I couldn't live with the feeling someone else has MY child.. Maybe it sounds mean to you and I know some women can't become pregnant. I only think at that time, I couldn't live with that feeling.. Yes, I got an abortion and sometimes I regret it but after all, I think I made the right choice. So I understand you, totally. Love♥
I understand your position honey and I wish you all the best. I am sure that someday when the time is right you’ll be an amazing mother and even though you still regret it sometimes I am certain that at that moment you felt like it was the best thing to do for yourself. Stay strong darling.
click here to read only this questionAnonymous asked: HiHiHi well i'm going to tell you my story & i hope later you give me a advic:) Well my friends started going to the disco but.. i don't want to go there (yeah i'm strange) and since they started going there they change, now the are diferent, they think they are sososo cool & now when i meet with them, i feel like they only want to be my friends 'cause my money & not for who i am & before they were my confidents & now i can't tell they my secrets.. and now i feel i'm alone, & i cry everynight..
Aww honey don’t feel this way because of your friends. You should trust them and I’m sure this is just a phase because they have just started their nightlife and think they are “cool”. I think that can happen quite regularly because teenagers feel more independent when they start going out but they shouldn’t change their behavior towards their friends and I’m sure that some day you’ll find that discos, clubs and bars are awesome and you’ll have a lot of fun there :) Just be patient, try talking with them and explain what’s wrong. If they are really your friends I’m sure they’ll say sorry and if you still think that after a serious and mature talk you can’t be friends anymore than maybe it’s time for you to find new friends!
click here to read only this questionAnonymous asked: I feel like I have to say this because I saw an anon said "don't get an abortion" to another anon. That made me really angry. I don't even know the original thing, but seriously, if you want to get an abortion, GET A FUCKING ABORTION. It's your choice. Do what you want and just don't care about what anyone else says.
I think that everyone is free to have their own opinions. We are free people and we are allowed to think how we want to. Regarding that situation, it is not a problem that can be solved that easily and I haven’t spoken with the girl anymore so I don’t know what she did or even if she did something. It is up to her to decide and I hope that she made the right choice.
This is for everyone who reads this. Feel free to share your opinions with me and I’ll post them in this blog even if you don’t need advice and just feel like sharing. However, remember that no judging is allowed because we have different opinions.
click here to read only this questionAnonymous asked: ive only ever really liked 2 guys that something has happened with. and a third one.. because im an idiot. all have lost interest so fast, and i dont know whats wrong with me. i dont want to sound conceited, but i have plenty of friends, and im not the most attractive, but im not a doorknob. i really dont understand why they all lose interest so fast, and end up flat-out ignoring me. i dont think im that annoying....
I don’t think that you are annoying or anything. I am sure nothing is wrong with you. Maybe you have know those guys for a long time and you feel that way but what if you try to meet new guys? I know that it might be a little difficult but you can’t think that the problem is in you because that will lower your self-esteem and confidence towards boys and you can’t let that happen. Just be yourself and if you think like you are being annoying try talking to a close friend about it :)
click here to read only this questionAnonymous asked: To the previous anon: please don't get an abortion. I know you probably heard that a lot, but please. There are so many women that can't have children and you could just give one of them your child. There are open adoptions too. Please adopt, so many women want the feeling of having a child
click here to read only this questionAnonymous asked: Well.. no. Only he knows and my ex-bf. But he (my ex) actually dumped and cheated on me because I decided to do a abortus.. Yes I also was thinking about that but I really love him and he only does like that when we have a fight. Otherwise he is really the sweetest boy in the world.. :( My parents actually don't know about him.. Thank you so much girl. You are really sweet♥ :) x
Your ex seems like such a stupid guy, I am so glad you dumped him! You deserve so much better darling and hopefully your new boyfriend can bring you the best and the happiness that you deserve :)
Honey, thank you so much, you’ve been really sweet as well and I just wish that you stay strong <3
click here to read only this questionAnonymous asked: So.. i'm 16 years old and one year ago i got a abortus.. maybe weird but I had because ex-bf (19 years..) had sex with me while I actually was drunk or something.. (don't remember that anymore) It was a really hard time. So now I'm in love with a boy who lives somewhere else and is 23 years old. I told him my story but when we have a fight now, he always tells me 'get pregnant AGAIN!!' or something like that. It really hurts.. :( What should I do? he said sorry but he keeps on saying that..
Honey I can’t imagine what you have gone through. To do an abortion at such a young age must be a terrible experience. Did you tell anyone about it? You must have felt so scared!
About your current love, you should definitely tell him to stop it or even break up with him because you don’t deserve someone that always reminds you of such a bad thing even though it happened one year ago. You have to be strong and talk to him about this matter and if he doesn’t stop I don’t see another solution.
Sorry for answering this a few days after you sent it but I have been really busy and I hope that everything works out good for you because you deserve the best darling! Stay strong.
click here to read only this questionAnonymous asked: my mum has been depressed for quite a long time, but no one ever really noticed because she was always there for other people and never showed it to anyone, but me. i always got so scared when she got home because everything she kept to herself during the day came out at home. she threw with plates and stuff and these moments are quite traumatic memories to me. she's better now but still has those moments sometimes. and although I know she needs my support I blame her for that. I can't forgive.
Honey I am so sorry that you had to live with this situation but I am sure that it made you a stronger person. You should forgive no matter how difficult it is, at least try it and if you fail, try again. Try talking with her, maybe she can go to the doctor and take some antidepressants and she will feel more relaxed. You have to be really strong and make sure you don’t blame your mother because she doesn’t act like this on purpose. I am sure she is a wonderful person, just like you, who needs some help to overcome whatever she’s facing and trust me she will need you.
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